Brainstorming Notes
Holistic Empathy Definition

There is still no clear consensus about what precisely empathy is.

What to call Direct Empathy in the Empathy Circle?

• Rogers and Rosenberg called it Empathy

• We want to differentiate it from Imaginative Empathy, Self-Empathy, Holistic Empathy, etc.

• Some terms Rosa and I considered were

  • • interpersonal Empathy

    • live interpersonal empathy

• From Phenologist Dan Zahavi - empathy is face-to-face

• I'm starting to like Basic Empathy, or just empathy. 

Empathy Meetings Topics

• Share the Holistic Model - Presentation - get feedback

• The problems with current definitions - Presentation - get feedback

•  Basic Empathy

Simple one sentence Definition:

The quality of ongoing feeing, sensing and imagining our way into life. Sensing into ourselves, others and our community.

Exercise and Strengthen your empathy.

Empathy is a like a Exercises  that has to be practiced and exercised to strengthen it. The Empathy Circle 

The big picture is that empathic  is a way of being in the world. It's is how we look experience and look out at life.

When you have discussions with people, you can ask what their definition of empathy is.  When you share your definition you can say you use the Holistic Empathy Model or definition.

This is my model that has served me well.

creating a definition that everyone may support.

I'll map on other models to the holistic model. 

Creating a definition that is practical and others can build on.

Also creating the Empathy Circle which others can build on. I'm building on the work of Carl Rogers who developed the Active Listening process, for example.

Outline

1. Problem

   1. Confusion of definition

   2. Definition gets rather abstract

2. Cause

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3. Solution

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I hope this book can Improve  your life and the life of the culture. Also, that is will be a foundation that you can build on.

Empathize with the Reader

• How to empathize with potential readers?

• I want to empathize with you as there reader. What are you feeling and thinking as you read this.

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R and D

• what is the reason for this book.. 

• is there interest in the topic

• Test drive the idea of the book.

  • • give presentations   

      • • Summit Jan 4

        • Summit April 5

        • Empathy Conference May 23

        • Aug

        • Nov

    • Give a presentation and then have an empathy circle afterwards  

    • create a teaching modual for each chapter. Actually create the training and hold a workshop/

    • hold presentations and 

    • write an article.

    • Get the book out

    • Hold Empathy Cafe Book Club.

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• is there really interest in empathy and an empathy movement

• use the book to build the empathy movement. 

First Line: 

I’ll explain how criticisms of empathy can be addressed. You will have the arguments to...

A handbook - a map, and compass to navigate... 

Doing the Research

A Holistic Empathy –

Sensing more deeply moment by moment into the changing felt experience of self, other and groups

• with presence - attention

• with a sensitivity to the fullness of others. feelings

• Sensing into 

• without blocks of empathy

  • Judgment

  • Domination 

  • Detachment

Example, walking into a room full of people.

• with presence - attention

• with a sensitivity to the fullness of others. feelings

I'll explain how you can take what you learned in this book and join the Empathy Movement 

What are policies we support?

1. political parties hold regular public available empathy circles across the politician divides

I'll explain how you can take what you learned in this book and join the Empathy Movement 

What are policies we support?

1. politcal parties hold regular public availalbe empathy circles across the politican divides

Sympathy and empathy  

• starts with empathy, changes

• same with compassion? 

• Compassion is applied to 

Create an  Ideal Reader - Persona

• a name

• a character

When I talk about empathy, people very often ask,
How do you define it?

Create a Course on defining empathy. A practical 

Some people say we shouldn't define words and concepts like empathy. Why do they say that?

People should just know what it is. There is a problem with defining our terms

ChatGPT:  Some people argue against defining terms like empathy because of the complexity and lack of consensus surrounding its meaning. The main reasons for this stance are:

1. Definitional ambiguity: Empathy has multiple interpretations and components, making it difficult to agree on a single, comprehensive definition4. For example, empathy can refer to emotional contagion, imagining oneself in another's situation, or feeling compassion for others.

2. Risk of oversimplification: Attempting to define empathy may lead to oversimplification of a complex concept, potentially ignoring important nuances and variations in how people experience and express empathy4.

3. Contextual differences: The meaning and application of empathy can vary across different contexts, cultures, and disciplines, making a universal definition challenging and potentially limiting4.

4. Evolving understanding: As research in psychology and neuroscience progresses, our understanding of empathy continues to evolve, making fixed definitions potentially outdated or incomplete3.

5. Potential for misuse: A narrow definition of empathy could be used to justify or criticize certain behaviors without considering the full range of empathic experiences and responses12.

By avoiding strict definitions, researchers and practitioners can maintain flexibility in exploring and discussing the various aspects and manifestations of empathy across different situations and populations. 

Why is it important to define words and concepts like Empathy? 

ChatGPT:  Defining words and concepts like empathy is important for several reasons:

1. Clarity and understanding: A clear definition helps ensure that people are on the same page when discussing empathy, reducing misunderstandings and facilitating more productive conversations.

2. Research and measurement: Precise definitions allow researchers to study empathy more effectively, develop accurate measurement tools, and compare findings across studies1.

3. Practical applications: In fields like healthcare and education, a well-defined concept of empathy enables professionals to develop targeted interventions and training programs to enhance empathic skills.

4. Distinguishing from related concepts: Defining empathy helps differentiate it from similar but distinct concepts like sympathy, allowing for more nuanced understanding and application.

5. Cultural and contextual awareness: A comprehensive definition can account for variations in how empathy is expressed and understood across different cultures and contexts.

6. Identifying components: Breaking down empathy into its constituent parts (e.g., cognitive, emotional, and compassionate empathy) allows for a more detailed understanding of its mechanisms and how to cultivate it.

7. Ethical considerations: A clear definition helps in addressing ethical concerns related to empathy, such as its potential misuse or the balance between empathy and professional boundaries.

8. Personal and societal development: Understanding what empathy entails can guide individuals and societies in fostering this important skill, leading to improved relationships and social cohesion.

While some argue against strict definitions to maintain flexibility in exploring empathy's various aspects, having a working definition provides a foundation for further research, discussion, and practical application of this crucial human capacity. 

Need effective names for the different parts of empathy.

1.  Holistic Empathy Model - the overall and based on mutual empathy in relationships.

2. ?? Empathy - 

   • • Direct Empathy

     • Sensing into Empathy

3. Self-Empathy - 

4. Imaginative Empathy -

5. Empathic Way of Being.

Book Writing Strategy

1. Write a Series of Article on the defining of Empathy. Topics

   1. the problem with the Definition of empathy on Cognitive and Affective Empathy

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Why is it important to have a clear Define Empathy?

1. I see creating a global culture that values mutual empathy is the way to a better world.

2. It seems to me, that if the world culture valued mutual empathy it would create better wellbeing  for everyone. I see that it is a practice and doable project.

3. To create a empathy movement we need a shared definition.

4. Some of the main disagreements about the importance of empathy come from people having different definitions and talking past each other.

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6. Distinguishing from Related Concepts

7. Types of Empathy

8. Importance in Various Fields

Defining Empathy in the Context of the Empathy Circle.

• this is a unique way to define our terms so that we can point to something that is happening in the empathy circle and use that as an experiential referent. Definitions can get rather abstract and using the Empathy Circle experience as a reference, can ground out definition.

• As the reader, you can take part in an Empathy Circle

Defining empathy in the context of Empathy Circles is helpful for several key reasons:

Establishing a Shared Understanding

Empathy Circles are designed to foster deep listening and connection between participants. By clearly defining empathy within this context, it ensures that all participants have a common understanding of what is expected and what they are working to cultivate1.

Skill Development

Empathy is a skill that can be learned and practiced. In Empathy Circles, participants have a structured environment to develop their empathy skills, including active listening, reflecting back understanding, and connecting with others' perspectives2. Defining empathy helps participants focus on specific aspects they can improve.

Creating a Safe Space

A clear definition of empathy in Empathy Circles helps create a safe, non-judgmental space for participants to share and be heard. It sets the tone for interactions that are based on understanding rather than criticism or debate1.

Distinguishing from Other Practices

While Empathy Circles can be seen as a gateway to other practices like counseling or mediation, defining empathy in this specific context helps differentiate it from these related but distinct approaches1. This clarity allows participants to focus on the unique aspects of the Empathy Circle process.

Fostering Connection

By emphasizing empathy as a core component, Empathy Circles tap into our inherent capacity for human connection. Defining empathy in this context highlights the importance of nurturing our "social engagement system" and recognizing our interconnectedness1.

Promoting Personal and Societal Transformation

A clear understanding of empathy within Empathy Circles can empower participants to see how this practice can lead to personal growth and wider societal change. It helps participants recognize how expanding their "circle of empathy" can have far-reaching positive impacts3.

By defining empathy in the context of Empathy Circles, participants can more effectively engage in the practice, develop crucial interpersonal skills, and contribute to building a more empathetic and understanding society.